Today, I would like to revisit the topic of attention—this time, looking at what happens when we give too much of it, or offer long, winding explanations for simple situations. Picture a familiar scene at the supermarket checkout. The line is long, and within easy reach are rows of chocolates, candies, and small toys. Your three-year-old spots something they want. You say no. Almost immediately, things escalate. Tempers rise, and before you know it, you are lifting a surprisingly heavy...

In my last post, we discussed how creating the right environment can support the development of concentration. In this post, I would like to focus on what adults can actively do to help nurture concentration in children. It may surprise you to know that babies are actually born with an impressive ability to concentrate. Watch a toddler during lunchtime. They often study their food with intense focus, sometimes even going cross-eyed while examining a crisp piece of carrot. Or observe a baby...

Much has been written and spoken about the attention span of young children. While it may feel like a modern concern, it's interesting to note that attention actually begins developing very early in life—almost from birth. Newborns begin to focus during close interactions with their mothers, particularly while feeding. Research suggests that babies can initially see objects about 10 inches away. Gradually, their ability to focus increases: within a few weeks, they can maintain attention for...